I did get a nice hug this morning, but I asked for it.
Would it do any good to tell you that is pursuing and it pushes him away from you? So is the gift buying. Not that that was much, but it is still pursing. You do so good and give excellent advice to other posters. I hope you can tighten your belt and try hard not to chase after H.....
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
