Hi Gardener! I see you have had much help here and hope you had your question answered. I see most LBH's doing the "over thinking" so I suppose it is natural.
My first thoughts about this situation would be that it has to be one of two ways: 1) if the two of you are going to act like “friends”, then wouldn’t another friend call or knock before entering your house; or 2)if she is free to do your house that way, you need to ask her for a key to her place so you can come & go as you please there!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
