totally messed things up!!

[The Wifey]

Don't you dare send that text. Its a cowardly way to handle it.

Like I said she's called at least 6 times this morning most likely wondering if I'm going to fix car today.I've ignored the calls.

I've prepared a text preety much explaining that I can't do these things for her if she is in another relationship.I figured it was better than calling her and getting into argument.I haven't sent it yet.Its nothing nasty just pretty much explains that I am not going to be a doormat.I do have my pride.

Calmly tell her that I didn't answer your calls because I was trying to figure out how to tell you that I can not work on your car. While there is OM in your life I just can't bring myself to do it.

I've pretty much said do not call anymore until you can figure out what you want in your life.Any feedback?

Oh right, and in about 48 hours after that (or sooner) you will be on here regretting you ever said that.

Come on now. Take your b*lls out of her purse, and calmly tell her that I just can't do this for you. I love you, I care about you and want you to be safe, but I just can't help you with this.

That says exactly what you were going to text in a less-hostile way.