I've found myself looking for another job (my om is @ my current job) & b/c I think it's best for me. Also, this was a request of my H previously. I see now the "why" of it. It's not b/c he asked me to, it's respect for his feelings.
The reason I think he's trying the last resort technique is b/c he seen my book in my work bag. I seen him notice it but did not say anything. Later, he said something to the affect of "I've tried all but the last resort with you".....
I did mention to him that I had received a couple of calls for positions I'd applied for & he seemed genuinely interested in my search. He didn't ask why or how, just showed a spark.
I had a little drag back last night when I received a message from his OW....he hasn't been seeing her @ all & has stated that he broke all ties, but she is trying to drum up trouble....
I'm letting it go. I'm not sure that I should even mention it. I would so he could see a little jealousy in me, but I also don't want to b/c I'm afraid that it will seem that I''m trying to "snoop" even though I didn't initiate or reciprocate her correspondence.
Hope this clarifies a few things....
Distracted 1978 Me - 30 H - 28 D - 13, 8, 7 S - 21 months SS - 6
My Bomb to him 10/26/2008 Separated (physically) 03/15/2009 Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009
