Tonight when I take the D back I want to tell her what I think about her and the other guy, and what I feel like she's doing to me... Ive been trying to DB, but how can I DB when there is most likely another man, and Ive got an order keeping me from my W? I don't know what to do. Maybe make a list and hit my bullet points... please help
What do you hope to accomplish by telling her this stuff? I think she'll most likely lie. She is at least having an EA from what you say, and possibly a PA. I think when that is the case, she won't listen to whatever you have to say. Logic and reasoning doesn't work with people having A's. It's a waste of time and won't help your R.
Since you have a child, there may be an order, but when you are co-parenting you will have plenty of opportunities via email and in person. I feel like there are too many sometimes!!! The protective order is temporary, so I would get to working on that. What does your L say would help you with that? Whatever he suggests, I would make a top priority.
Instead of wasting time focusing so much on your W, I think you should focus more on yourself. Do 180s, GAL, make yourself into the best person and dad you can be. Karen
