well I went to get my D and the W sprung on me that now she's going to stick to the court orders to the T, meaning that I only have 12 hours to visit my D now instead of the original overnight that she agreed to earlier in the week. She says that she spoke to her paralegal yesterday and they told her that she couldn't adjust any visitation times or she would get into trouble. I think shes lying cause I called around last week and the answer that I got was that she could do anything with visitation hours, because there was no protective order against the D. Not to mention she didn't bother to tell me or the D till this morning. This tears me up horribly.
As far as the other guy I have nothing more than a phone bill, and them denying it. I already caught her in a lie from before we split though, although I haven't confronted her on the lie yet. She was talking to him on the Friday before she filed for D. In one day there was 102 texts, and over an hour of phone conversation. She was talking to him, when she had told me she was talking to her dad. Unfortunately that was at the end of the month and July's bill hasn't popped yet. I'm honestly afraid of what I'm gonna find. My D told me that she W texting him, and the W said she talks to him everyday, which is a different story than what both of them told me.
Im so frustrated right now, cause my W also said that the protective order on her cant be dropped and it will last for a year...
We are suppose to start using her lawyer together to work amicably through this but now I feel like she screwing me now, or at very least she taking advantage of me.
Tonight when I take the D back I want to tell her what I think about her and the other guy, and what I feel like she's doing to me... Ive been trying to DB, but how can I DB when there is most likely another man, and Ive got an order keeping me from my W? I don't know what to do. Maybe make a list and hit my bullet points... please help
