Blaming you for what he did is a way of trying to spread his guilty feelings around for you to feel too.

He is angry because you actually stood up for yourself. I agree that it may get worse before it gets better but you are strong enough to prevail through it all. It may seem like GOD has put so much in front of you that you don't know how you can possible get through it all but GOD does not do things to us that he doesn't believe you can't handle.

Keep dogging through it all. Have a good weekend.

P.S. Trying to stop thinking about the OW being pregnant. The only way you are going to know for sure is to ask your H outright. Do you think you would get a truthful answer?

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09