And this is why we can't build our lives on feelings. Feelings are like the wind, they change. And they are supposed to change. You wouldn't say the wind had to blow from the north every day or you couldn't be happy. And you shouldn't think that you need to feel in love everyday or you can't be happy. Love is deeper than that, and love is something you create by making the decision to love, not something that hits you over the head.