I am looking at each day as one day closer to this being over...Can't be more positive then that...
I think this is an awesome outlook, I'd like to borrow it from you if you don't mind sharing.......
I have been reading Wayne Dyers book Excuses Begone and it touches on the subject of living in the present moment.
Not worring about the past or trying to see into the future.
Because everything that has happened or will happen in the past or future is derived from living and experiencing just what is happening right now.
"Our relationship to the present moment defines our relationship to life itself. Whatever ever has happened in the past - no matter how many years, centuries, or millenia ago - all took place in the now. Just now. There is no way to experience anything other than in the precious present. The same logic applies equally to the future - what ever we fantasize about happening then will also only take place in the now."
It's a great read.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
Oh, I don't know about that, but I'm beginning to think that you and Mac oughta get a room.
Play nice children.............
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
noun humor or frivolity, esp. the treatment of a serious matter with humor or in a manner lacking due respect : as an attempt to introduce a note of levity, the words were a disastrous flop.
I am good thank you for asking and no need to borrow...I think we can all benefit to think that way at least a few days a week...I will check out the book you mentioned as well...Thank you...Hope all is going well with you today
Mac...I pay no heed and you know that...I don't feel so old today...Maybe late 20's
No plans for the weekend except work tomorrow then hanging with the boys and Church...No word today...Never know if that is a good thing or a bad thing lol...Makes my day easier though...
How are you doing today? Gonna avoid the pub perhaps?
I hope you are having a wonderful night my friend!
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
So you lot are in Z land now. I've already put in a couple of hours house work. Can I hear any Ahhhhh shames? I believe I do
Serenity - late 20's isn't that far off from where you are now - knock a couple more off
No plans are good. Go with the flow. Hanging with the youngsters is great. See what they want to do.
No news is good news. Take this quiet time to concentrate on yourself and forget the silly pillock for a day or two.
From what I see on your recent threads - he's like my significant other - they both think they know exactly what they're doing but as anyone on the outside can see they really don't have a clue. It must be tough on them because of all the brain-strain they are putting themselves through.
Today for me? More housework. Boy it's been tough back at work and still keeping house, sorting dogs, fish and dozens of things that make up a normal day in the life of...
I'm going to a place called The Barrel - huge pub - to watch the Springboks hammer the All Blacks at rugby. This is the place to be. Full of green shirts. I'll have mine on. And meeting a great friend of ours to watch with him.
Problem is that it's the closest place to when my W is staying. There's a chance that one or the other of the ladies will be there.
So keeping my fingers crossed that W opens up to Karen later. K is going to TELL her to get her act together. Two months of people telling W what they think will help her - you know the drill - may be at an end this PM. K also thinks the time for being gentle is over. Everyone is getting a little fed up with W now. Time to shake the tree.
Can't help but think what the public row between W and "friend" was all about. This is not normal for the W. She's never been anything like this before. And who was driving it?
Can't remember what the night was like Serenity - my eyes were shut
Was checking out your post Mac and I am sorry your wife is flaking...
She does sound just like mine...
He got ahold of me the other day because he needed some money...
Not gonna happen sorry...
Why in the world does she need no less then 3 grand a month? I have 2 kids and don't even need that much...
Basically she wants her cake and eat it to...
She wants her own life (right now) as long as you are willing to support it...
Eff that...
If she needs that much money a month, then she either needs to get a couple of jobs or not be so high maintence...
Other then that, I am happy your attitude is still positive...It is the absolute worst situation to find yourself in however you are doing a fantastic job with your PMA...
Mine wavers day to day however I suppose that is normal...
Somedays I am just fine (as long as I don't think about it) and other days it takes all I have not to go to his place and beat him down for what he has done...
Good thing my meds are stable lol...
Days like today, I am calm within...
I tell myself I deserve better...
I am stronger then I ever knew because of this...
I have an inner peace now that I haven't had in a long time and quite frankly (today) I am not sure I want him back...
I feel guilty for thinking that however what is to say if we do get back together, he won't do it again later on down the road? What kind of man bails on his family with no guilt?
No remorse?
No regret?
How in the hell do you get that kind of trust back?
I know the answers aren't easy to come and I am not sure anyone has those answers but these are the questions I ponder...
I hope your rugby game is going wonderfully and you have a fantastic day!
"Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will." Jawaharal Nehru
(((Hugs))) to all
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Gaslight him...I am sure he did it to you to begin with
**I hope Puppy isn't around...He is going to rip us a new one for this behavior...
He'll have to rip me, too, then. I thought it was great. And I would have put the black thong panties in his pack so it would fall out when he takes out his clothes, so she could question who's it was.
On her side it would be an obvious plant. On his it looks like he's playing both of you.
Evil Grin.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
