I would absolutely 100% tell her that you gave it more thought and you would NOT feel comfortable for her to date or have sex with anyone. That you only said it because you thought that was what she wanted to hear.

That is the biggest load of horse droppings that WILL not get her to come closer to you.

Then refuse to discuss it again. She may still go forward with her twinkle but she will not do it thinking she has your blessings.

Please go read my latest post to K4D, because it may be applicable to you as well. (Rather than me having to repeat myself.)


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.