If there had been a hug, a kiss or an "I love you" sprinkled into our evening, I don't think anyone would have known there was anything wrong between us.
I understand, b/c my sitch, and many other's here, is the same.
Sandi, as usual, is absolutely correct. You are doing great. You SOUND positive, and it sounds like you know what and what not to do. Keep it up.