Well, I guess I will blog a little here... the Lawyer now has the signed papers, I will be mailing her a copy today certifed mail.
since she has sighned the papers she has been very friendly to me through texts and the very short phones calls we have had.
I guess I will post the short ver. of our conversations
She was mad at another friend and asked through a text if it was ok to tell him off I wrote back yeah and asked what was up.. she called and told me.(I told her I really did not care and said it was between them).... I found this to be odd she asked if she could?????
Then yesterday she (my wife) saw a post on facebook where one of my next door neibors was complaining that they finally had two good neibors and it was sad to see the forsale sighn go up (she often refered to us as her good neibors and was always upset that our plan from day one was to live here for awhile fix it up and build a new house) she texted me asking if I had put the house up forsale.
I told her no I cant sell it right now and if/when I do I will let her know. She wrote me back saying she thought maybe but was not sure.
she thanked me and asked how i was doing.
I told her I was ok but tired and I was getting sick.
she asked if I got any sleep and It sucks I was getting sick.
I told her I did get to sleep but was still tired, I asked how she was. and I told her I had to work on the car this weekend and went into brief summary of what I had to do to it.
she said she was suviving, she was up late. she told me how her night out at bingo went. sounded like she had some fun. then she said she was having a hard time getting to sleep because she missed our son so much and only slept from 4am til 9am
I made the offer that she can see the kids anytime she would like. just call it would be fine.
she said it would be too hard right now for her. but thanked me
so later at night my son asked to go to moms (very odd for him prob just stalling so he did not have to go to sleep. but who knows) We ended up calling her and my son and older daughter left a voicemail. She called back and talked to my son and the two girls. I guess she was crying after talking to my son because my older daughter asked her why she was crying. they gave me the phone and she thanked me and i let her go.
then a few hours later she texted me and said some lady backed into her in the parking lot where she was shopping. she was all upset and we texted back and forth constantly I guess she was in the next state over and was affraid of a warr. cuz of a unpaid speeding ticked she had gotten long befor we ever got togeather. I do remember her getting a letter in 2006 saying there was a warr. and she needed to pay it.
I did my best to calm her down, mad another joke and told her about a similar situation and how that state seems to only care about that if it is in the same co. and she can relax. if there was a problem it would get figured out.
as it turned out nothing happened no tickets but she had the other drivers insurance info and could file the claim. and she was happy
**my recap on this is it seems very clear when things get bad im her back up still. I wanted to tell her so bad that she is on her own just like she wanted! but, I guess in the interest of being a friend and i usually help most people out as ive always been a nice person I decided to stay supportive and show her i was still a mature level headed friend who has always been there.
now i feel this is a fine line im still walking here between a friend and a saftey net.
