Think, Dealing with the occasional run-ins with the OM. It caught you off guard because you didn't have a plan that's the way it is the surprises get the biggest reactions. Options - be the bigger man, let him know you are setting a boundary, act as if and talk to all the other people in the group, change pools, or run him over in the parking lot. Detaching isn't so much about having feelings/expectations as it is letting go of outcomes. Your feelings are normal just make sure they are appropiate, ie no guilt or shame. You have to let the anger out in appropiate ways. Understand and feel your feelings nothing wrong there. The key is how to handle it the next time. Think thru what will help you, is healthy and keeps the Thinker out of jail. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.