My real fight is to keep myself detached and fight off the codependent thoughts and behaviors. I relax, do my own thing for a while, etc, and then I stumble onto something that throws me back into "red alert".
D@mn creeping expectations...
It has been a real struggle for me to detach and let go while at the same time caring about her and keeping my heart open.
Back to step 1 (of 12)...
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.