I was just thinking about your sitch and the lack of contact and I wondered if it might be worth you reading up on Transformer's and Brandnewday's threads. Transformer has been DBing her BF and is maing some great strides with him in spite of living in different states and long periods of NC (up to 5 months, I think). BND was a success story whose H moved 3000 miles away when he left. They didn't have much contact but she brought about a successful reconciliation and their M is going strong. Transformer recently posted to AliSuddenly in piecing so you could click her profile and locate her threads from there.....
Anyway, I just wanted to say that lack of contact isn't necessarily a bad thing- it can work out for the best and there are stories on the site that support that....
