Thanks for visiting me. It's always lovely to see you! Welcome rinserepeat- it's lovely to see a new person on my thread too.
I've had a lovely week- done lots of holiday shopping and I've been out quite a lot which is nice. A couple of the girls from the office and I even went out for lunch together one day this week, which was a real change for them. I'm gradually formenting revolution in that office and trying to liven them up!
On Monday CEO and I went to yoga. He's so funny- remembered asking me to go with him the week before and then texted me to remind me on the Monday morning. I got there early and when he arrived he walked in all excited and called me over to him. Then he revealed this huge rose bush that he'd bought me. It was so sweet- he was so excited to give them to me and the roses are gorgeous. They're currently sitting in a pot in my bathroom but I'm going to plant them in BFFs garden next weekend. In exchange for the roses he wanted me to take him out for lunch, which I did. That was really funny because he accidentally made an overtly sexual comment and then when I looked surprised (I'm not easily shocked but this was slightly unexpected) he spent 10 minutes talking constantly through changing subjects to try and cover it up. He's so funny and infuriating and hot and there's still nothing official going on.
The guy I saw last week has been texting me a bit. It's quite sweet that he's making such an effort and he's asked me if I want to go dancing with him tomorrow afternoon. I think it'd be fun, but am not sure about going because I don't think he'd ever be more than a friend.
Yesterday I had lunch with H- he was helping me choose and buy an iPod and was very excited about it. He was really helpful and it was really nice having lunch, catching up and then going to the shops. He prolonged lunch by asking me for a coffee after we'd finished the buying, and then an unusual thing happened..... he invited himself over to our (my?) flat for dinner one night either next week or the week after.
I was flabbergasted because firstly he's only been here 3 times since he moved out (that's 2 years!), and secondly we haven't eaten together in a home setting since he moved out, and thirdly he suggested it. I said yes, that it'd be nice and he said he'd let me know when he was in this neck of the woods. I guess we'll see what happens. I don't think it means anything about reconciliation or him wanting to come home because we also talked about emptying our things out of storage. But then, he didn't refer to the D papers at all either, so I don't know if he's ackowledged service yet. I guess I'll find out next week as his deadline is Thursday. Al- you're right that my H is incredibly confusing. He even said to me himself yesterday that I probably know how bad he is at making decisions! It was tempting to say that he'd definitely made some bad ones but I didn't; maybe he's realising himself that he did.
Men are like buses- nothing for ages and then 4 come along at once.