Waiting More Than a Dozen Years

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If life were fair, we'd all have the same name, the same "stuff," and the same life. There would be nothing different or distinctive about our lives.

It does not work out that way and our experience of life is simply a matter of geography, the where and when we are in spacetime. No exceptions.

It seems that my initial observation, that this is a no-win situation, remains accurate and there is little offered here.