Oh God thanks for your advice, I read them all. I never imagined going thru this after 29 years of M. I think I got a temporary collapse of "brain cells". This guy is just too close to confort.

steve said:"and if this guy ever notices you 2 again you will be an example of how great love and marriage can be, which may be something he may never have..." ---->I just discovered he launches his boat at the same marina we launch ours. Here is where I'm going to show this guy how is like to be married to a woman just so beautiful and precious as my wife. I will laugh my pants off at his. He will have a chance to compare his 42 yrs old piece of crap with my flamant 49 yrs girl. Believe me my wife is almost 50 yrs old and looks way younger than his wife. BTW, I'm 51 and the POSOM is 43. Well...time to go sleep its 3:30 am. THANKS BLUERAIN, STEVE, PUPPY, FF. I will keep you post it. God bless you all

Me:52
W:50
M:30
D:19S:27
Discovered EA:08/08 denied
W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08
Exposed wrong OMW:10/08
Found exact OM's ID 2/09
Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet
25 months after still a rollercoaster