Just saw this wonderful post from Sandi2 on gima's thread that hit me and gives me more hope. Thanks Sandi....

Originally Posted By: sandi2
don't forget how we women like to talk to other women! You know how differently men & women "think" and she probably wanted to talk to a gf b/c she felt like another woman would "understand"........ That is one reason we women turn to our gf to talk is for the sympathy.So, now you may feel as if I’m telling you to be like a woman! (lol) No so.