I just realized that I look for friends that are very low drama and ignore family members that are high drama. I think it is part of my controlling personality. Having to deal with all of the drama from husband's affairs really pisses me off. I want things settled now and am angry that I am still dealing with this bs.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
I think leaving town next week will help me get some of my sanity back. It is so hard living with someone that has lost his flippin' mind!!! My teenagers have given me much less stress that my H.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
While we have been arguing this week, H asked me, "Do you think we can ever make it work?" I replied that I am not sure how I can ever believe you again.
Why do I have to be so stubborn? I wish he would make any type of effort. Why doesn't he ask me to go back to MC? Why doesn't he try to research online and help our marriage? Why doesn't he understand that we are in a very bad spot?
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
While we have been arguing this week, H asked me, "Do you think we can ever make it work?" I replied that I am not sure how I can ever believe you again.
Why do I have to be so stubborn? I wish he would make any type of effort. Why doesn't he ask me to go back to MC? Why doesn't he try to research online and help our marriage? Why doesn't he understand that we are in a very bad spot?
HE is incapable right now......YOU however....
Are capable of changing.
Most of the time, they are incapable of dealing with their own emotions....let alone yours too.
Sometimes in marriage, we have to cowboy (girl) up and carry the marriage ourselves for a while....
thank you so much for you reply and your post in MLC.
I think men are less capable of understanding why they act as they do. I guess I need to decide if I can go through with this. The first OW broke my heart but the second OW was really a disrespectful slap in my face. I was thinking he was staying wanting to rebuild but he was still searching for someone else.
thanks again
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
OW is leaving comments referring to H on the music website where they met. Things like I can't get you off my mind..you know who you are and this song reminds me of someone I used to know and then H's initials. ARGH!!!!
i SO want to leave a message to her...Does your husband know that you are missing my husband?
But I am not, I am going to keep laying low and waiting to see if he contacts her again. I want to have faith that he won't but only time will tell.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
