I re-grouped and had a discussion about her day. I started it by asking how the rest of her day went. She told me not well, then filled in the details. She did have a bad day.
So, I listened and fought that urge to fix it. I told her the situation sounded frustrating. I also told her I was here to talk about it if she needed/wanted to. I also asked her if there was anything I could do to help. She said she "appreciated that" but that there was nothing anyone could do.
I was angry and hurt she would turn to others not only before me, but to the exclusion of me. I know that is not surprising. I'm ok now, really I am. Just was not very happy earlier. Will get a plan for the weekend and will have a great one.