It sounds like you have made a vast improvement on yourself. Very glad to hear what you've accomplished.
I know you want to save your M. I think you've learned to be very cautious where your W's techniques are concerned. I would not give in easily to her requests. I agree that she should truly want very much to work on the M....and I have doubts she has reached that place yet.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
