A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Has anybody noticed that this whole DBing thing can induce the world's biggest case of analysis-paralysis?? I'm sitting here wryly laughing at myself because I couldn't figure out if I should change out of my jeans and pretty blouse into a summer sundress I brought.

I didn't always look good for him, so putting on the dress is a 180.

But isn't that pursuing?? I'll wear the jeans...

But I'm supposed to look and feel like I'm on top of the world - attractive and confident - so I'll wear the dress.

But what if that makes him feel pressured???

AAARRRRGH!!! LOL!

I'm wearing the dang dress because I hear that no matter how much you males give lipservice to all this gender-equity hoopla, what you really like is for a woman to look like a woman. Besides, I feel sexy in this dress, and as long as I'm not doing my Eartha Kitt impression while lounging in the doorway, I think it'll be ok.

If I'm over the line, somebody set me straight quick cuz he'll be home soon.