That sounds good and I hope & pray that your H will be able to pull back from that situation and start giving his time and attention to his family. I am still concerned that he is either not admitting his attachment to OW or else he is in deep denial.....but I "hope" that he will resolve within his heart to use this time to get his act together and cut ties. I have seen men here on the board who would have a woman who turned to them as a "friend" and the man would talk as if he did not see how it was headed down the EA path. Makes you wonder about some men, doesn't it? Anyway, you still have our support and sure want everything to work for your good.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!