Orchid- I have no idea how to get over the resentment and I need to run out the door, but my H is saying the same thing!! "We need a divorce so we can move forward, possibly together." My fear is if he pulls that trigger, I won't be able to forgive him. You're not alone!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing