Orchid- I have no idea how to get over the resentment and I need to run out the door, but my H is saying the same thing!! "We need a divorce so we can move forward, possibly together."
My fear is if he pulls that trigger, I won't be able to forgive him.
You're not alone!


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing