Go Bison, Unfortunately if she is having an A there is nothing you can do about it.Trust me I know.My W moved out 4 months ago.About 5 minutes away.I'm am back to the sep. mode with her.I know that she may be doing this just to pacify me and it could also be a way out.But I look at it this way at least its not divorce yet.It just might buy us some more time.Forget about om if there is one.I've gotten some good advice on the board about that.