its hard to say if that was the cause but it cant hurt to keep it in mind for the future, if and when u do have a r talk.

i have apologized to h for different things i felt might have contributed to our problems. i did it in email form and im happy that i did, it lifted a weight off my chest. but timing is everything. i did it at a good time in our attempted reconciling period.

its all about timing.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09