Gima, Thanks for taking the time I appreciate it. I needed to (re)hear all you said, especially this nugget
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
You can't MAKE her change, but you can make her WANTto/THINK ABOUT changing.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Minor disagreements, but in 15 years, I cannot recall what I would call a big fight we ever had. This is not unusual.
You, too, huh? If you've said that in the past, I've forgotten.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Just keep doing what you are doing. Get more and more comfortable with you, let your confidence grow, allow your religious relationship to evolve. These are the things YOU can control. Everything else has to work itself out.
Thanks, again. You've helped bring me back to center. Really.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac