And this is where we are legally:

My lawyer has sent my list of demands- joint physical/legal custody, 50% of marital assets,etc.

Waiting for a reply back from my wifes lawyer. Not looking forward to our first court date which has not been set yet.

Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final