Do I want to know the truth?

[newnamenewlife]

That's what I'm wondering--will it make me feel better, worse, or no different?

He would probably say that he was unhappy in the marriage regardless, so the issue of another woman, whenever she came on the scene, is just a detail. If he was happy in our M, he wouldn't have been open to someone else.

I guess I'll just have to mull it over some more.