Just FYI - you're probably nowhere near the SoCal deserts, but if you are, I know a really amazing LMFT for IC/MC who specializes in FOO issues. (Oy, the acronyms around here are hilarious!!) I don't recall of the top of my head if you are doing IC or MC or not. We did a few months of ineffectual MC, then I did 18 months IC with a different counselor. Great stuff, lots of growth for me.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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