WAS seeing reality?

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Forgot to mention that my wife did offer for me to eat dinner at home last night,but I cooked the dinner for the kids before she got home. When she got home I was cleaning up the mess I had made while cooking and she asked if I had eaten. I said no. She asked why? I said I did not want to eat up all of the left overs. While I was finishing up the dishes she offered one more time for me to eat some of the dinner I made, I declined politely.

My youngest daughter wanted to go outside so my wife went upstairs to change into some walking clothes. My oldest daughter came downstairs and asked if I wanted to go on the walk with them! So I thought it was ok with my wife...turns out my dughter had not asked my wife first. She said ok but once we started the walk I could tell my wife was not happy about it. I decided to go back to the house and cut the grass.
Now, should I have stayed and forced her to be a family with me or was it the right thing for me to go back home? I felt I was taking her time alone with the girls away from her. Should I even be cutting the grass? What if her love language is acts of service? Thanks!