These seem to be like the author is sitting in my house when the articles were written.
Do you think that my councelor can understand the toxic hope one? Are they trained to see that stuff and to help both sides of the matter? I can see the changes in my H but they do not stay for long, I wonder if that is because he has not actually said to himself that he has a problem. I would bet on that on.
If my H could change things about himself then, I dare say that, that there could be hope for us but not until then.
I had wrote him a letter and stuck it in his bag when he left for Mississippi. I found out last night that he has read it. I had told him to take a few days and think about it before we talk about it and that is what he said that he was doing. In the meantime I have noticed an increase of calls or texts that are just saying 'how is your day?' 'just wanted to say hi', 'I miss you', 'i love you.', 'can't wait to go on vacation with my beautiful wife!'. That kind of stuff. Don't know if it has something to do with the letter or not.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
