Kev, You have given me some good advice.My turn to reciprocate.All of here on the board have done a tremendous amount to try to save their marriages.We should all give ourselves a pat on the back for that.Everybody has their own set amount of time they feel they need to put into it.We are all going to backslide now and then.In my own sitch I should've started a little sooner but that is over and I need to work on going forward.You have to do what you need to do and that is it.Take care.Keep the faith.
