back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Yep. I am at a loss. This morning was odd. Kissed and hugged me. The past week I had to initiate. Last time I stopped saying ILY and emailing or calling her and she broke. The problem is she might think I really don't want to be in the marriage and start/keep going down this path.

I am looking for some advise from 2nd timers. Don't know what to do. I was gone for 2 days and she still slept in the xtra room. Makes no sense. Kids have noticed and they are acting funny and I can see it intheir eyes when they have to pick whorl sit next to. W and I usually sat together. When watching tv etc. The kids are clearly conflicted and wondering why the other bed. Even in the worst times in the last 6 months we slept in the same bed.