Actually I'm not frustrated in my sitch, but for all the other people here.
Just venting here, but I like how our WASs tell us that they know what it is to be in "real love" and how "marriage should be based on love", etc.
They refuse to go to T or MC, saying that there's nothing wrong and they know what it should be like, etc.
When we, the LBS, are reading everything we can about "true love" and "unconditional love" so we understand it better than anybody. It is also in our research that we find out how simple things would be to turn around if our WAS bothered to do so.
Orich's case is the perfect example. His W tells him she doesn't want him to be mad at her, etc. How controlling can that be? Same thing happened to me. But they turn around and call the LBS controlling. Crazy talk I tell you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.