Talked to H awhile ago. She's getting released today. Her H is supposed to pick her up. Her H and one daughter moved back into their house this week (the other daughter was already living there with her). So the plan is that she will move into the apartment where her H and one daughter were living.
They've got a therapy plan for her and she will start that next week. She's talking about getting well and getting back into nursing. Her H is supposed to be selling a farm they own and when that happens the proceeds are supposed to be used to by her a house. Their large house is for sale. I talked with my H about her making new friends and hopefully at some point she can date again. I was able to gently suggest that now my husband can start to pull back (can't remember what words I used now) and he said that's the plan.
He's decided after we have his birthday dinner tonight that he's going down to the lake for stress relief. He said between this situation, his foreman being gone this week and how busy they are at work - his stress level is off the charts. He just wants to be by himself and rest.
I'm going to be sure to give him space this weekend. I won't be calling him at all. I was a good listener to him this week but I know I let my jealousy show a couple of times, and we already know that I exhibited some pursuing behaviors so the time apart will be good for me to regroup as well.
Time will tell now if he pulls back like he says he's going to. I've just turned this over to God. My anxiety has not been good this week so I need to really get my head on straight again with my DBing.
Thanks Sandi and Puppy for all of your support this week! As always I appreciate your candor and your complete openness and honesty with me!
