Yep I think our W's are looking for that "in love" feeling. The only problem is that they spent so much time detaching to get out of that "in love" feeling with us, that they don't realize they have to WORK on getting that feeling back.
It's their choice to leave, yet when they think they want it to work, they expect it just to happen.
That's the ironic thing. If you read alot of the posts, the WAS does her hardest to mentally and emotionally break the LBS to make them seem like the bad guy. Then they turn around and say "I just don't have feelings for you". Well no sh*t. If you convinced yourself your S was a spawn of the devil, no wonder why there are no "feelings". Sheesh.
Lately I've been reading alot about attraction and what makes a guy attractive to women to see if that'll help a bit.
We'll see.
How is your sitch?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.