back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Nope. W's definition of controlling...anything that involves me in the decision making process and she couldn't just do what she wanted. Usually involves large sums of money or decisions that effect the family. Example: going to shool or changing careers or not working any longer which then brings in $0.00 or asking to join a gym for the family.

This is since January.