back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Nope. Just since the crisis stated in January. We did it for the kids. Well that was what she said. Now we owe it to the kids for us to be happy. E.g. She needs to happy and she is not. Not happy because she is a stay at home mom. Not happy cause she feels useless and controlled.

Hates he business she had cause I am controllering her by W being in the basement doing her business. She had a great little business going. But dropped it and said she hated it. Now on to something new. School to get another job that she really wants. At whatever cost to the family. She has faith no need to plan. All things will work out just fine...they always do.

Controlling has been us two making decisions. Then W doing whatever she wanted. Like this new job chasing. So it became my decision to hold off til both kids were full time in school (1 yr away). It is like the smallest things made into mountains.