In fact, my W has also said your changes are going to be good for the next person. It's the ideal of being "in love" which is the hardest hurdle to overcome.
Stuck,
Saw your posts on another thread and came over to check out your sitch! My W has said something similar. I wonder if she's just waiting to feel "in love" again. That could take a while, I don't think that just comes back. But the ideal is always there, in movies, everywhere!