you risk the chance of him trying to make contact with your wife and resetting the no-contact clock. what if your wife views you as an vindictive a-hole who wont let things go. she may view you as a person who will hold this over her head the rest of her life, and that may reason enough for her to leave you or do to this again.
what might be the greatest revenge, if to work on your marriage with your wife in a postive and loving manner. and if this guy ever notices you 2 again you will be an example of how great love and marriage can be, which may be something he may never have. believe me, his wife is suffering too. just not in the way you wish to make her suffer for her husbands inabilities. he will get his own in due time.
