I thought from the beginning that this guy was just a friend. They have known each other since grade school. I do know him. He always seemed a decent guy. I would never have suspected him. Reading these posts while in the emotional state I am in made me begin to suspect. I always knew in my heart of hearts that she was incapable of an affair. I am still operating under the premise that the M is over, but I will take any glimmer of hope I can. The bottom line is that I love her. I love her. I love her. And she is the mother of my children.
Orich - then trust your instinct. You're more aware now. That's good. But get back to working on yourself big time. Pick up the PMA - I know it seems impossible - but you have to do it. And you can do it. I think everyone of us wish we could go back and work on just that at the beginning of our problems.
Just my $.02 - I wouldn't operate as if the M is over. Yes you are going through problems, but it isn't over yet. Just prepare yourself for any outcome. we like to use sports analogies - the best athlete is the most prepared athlete. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back in there.
You can handle it.
STRENGTH and Honor. (You have both.)
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
