I think we just take so much of the "magic" for granted. We think it will always be there. Really I think we all have been guilty of that, just need to remember to feed the flame, now and then.

So do you even think that the OW knows that you both are working on your friendship? I know in my case, I told ex that you wouldn't treat your best friend this way and that I couldn't be his friend while he was with her. He said he cried all night but apparently didn't bother him enough.

People are different what didn't work for one might work well for another. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you! smile

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory