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So a question to all the wise ones out there. How do I respond to W when she does something irritates me or pi$$es me off and I visually show it, and she calls me out on it! I try to blow it off as nothing.


I don't qualify as wise but you need to handle this. She calls you on it because you are communicating to her in a passive aggressive way. It's unhealthy communication for both of you. I bet this is one of her issues with you - lack of communication.
You have a responsiblity to bring up things that distress you. Solution - When you do _____________, I feel ______________. You are letting her know what behaviors upset you not her personally. Things she does not who she is. Try it.

Cheers


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.