I agree with Faithful’s earlier post. She should do all the work.
Orich… why would supposed OM contact you? Do you know this person?
This is throwing me for a loop. It’s not characteristic of an OM. They usually run for the hills and try to stay hidden, not email H with offers to help.
Jess
Scifigirl - I don't want to bring this thread down again - but some of the vets here remember my sitch. The current OM in my sitch was trying to appear as a friend of the M also. I trust nobody. But Orich probably has a better sense here - he may know this guy to be a good person - in my sitch I knew he wasn't - hence the lack of trust. Regardless - FaithfulH hit it on the head. Work on yourself, control what you can control and let her do the work. Why the heck is she going away with this guy and his prod company?? Sara may be right - maybe he is the OM in her mind right now, the fantasy.
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
