Originally Posted By: K4D
Thanks Mules,

I don't know how she could be watching me though. We are separated and she has nothing to do with me and does not talk to me. What could she be watching? She always has plans with other people. I just don't see how she is watching me when she refuses to have anything to do with me.

My current thoughts are that she has really moved on and I am a past thought and nothing to watch or look at.

Kevin


Stop focusing on her - focus on you. Detach. Stop worrying about her. Just look good, feel good and be good.

Right now she doesn't want anything to do with you. But if you ever hope to change that, would the current K be attractive to her?? I'm not telling you she is going to change her mind - I'm telling you not to justify the decision she has already made. Be attractive bro, whether she sees you or not. Keep that mindset when you do have communication with her.

Remember Fast Times at Ridgemont High - Damone's 5 point plan:
number 2 - "wherever I am, that's the place to be. Isn't this great??"

You can handle it. Right Coach??

Mules


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.