So a question to all the wise ones out there. How do I respond to W when she does something irritates me or pi$$es me off and I visually show it, and she calls me out on it! I try to blow it off as nothing.
I *think* you do something like this:
If she catches you, compose yourself immediately. Restore yourself to a pleasant demeanor and vocal tone.
"Whoops. You're right; I'm sorry." Then make some pleasant comment that changes the subject, ends the convo, etc.
Anyone else?
Depends on what it is, of course. I'm not meaning to say that you should let her walk on you or treat you badly, just that getting pissy with her is probably counter-productive.
Last edited by Dia; 07/24/0904:09 PM.
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