I almost dread suggesting this (treading real dangerous ground here, I know) , but. Have you thought about um, er, absenting yourself from the local for a while or occasionally? Y'know, go real dark, mysterious, have her wonder what's up with you, you're not always going to "be there", etc.?
I agree with Gardener 100%...
Make her really think about why you aren't there when she knows that you normally are
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~