I made the mistake of saying that a week before she detonated her nuclear bomb I told my brother-in-law while I didn't want it to threaten our marriage, if she wanted to go do someone to get it out of her system - OK. Marriage therapist looked at me funny when I said this, and I'm wondering am I crazy to have thought that?
I to made this same statement at one point in time...Boy that is one of the things I wish I could reel back in now however I can't...
You seem to do the same thing I did...
You look for any and all crumbs within the interactions with your W...
You need to back off and do your 180's...
I know it is easier said then done but by going to her room or telling her you still have 1% hope is a form of pursuing and at this point you don't pursue...
You want her to wonder what you are up to...
You want her to pursue you...
You want her to second guess her decision...
She knows how you feel so drop it and become mysterious...
Don't bring it up anymore...
Don't discuss your R...
Just do things for you and your child/children
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
